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Tuesday, September 11, 2012

So I decided I should probably go ahead and document the journey we've been on the last few weeks, but first let me go back to the beginning...Kai's birth.

When Kai was born, we learned something we never imagined possible...I had a genetic mutation that I could pass on to my children.  Now, I'm sure you're thinking "what?" "huh?".  Well when I was born, my feet were turned out and up (to where they were against my shin bones so it looked like I had no feet).  There was no name to what it was.  My parents were just told it was a "congenital birth defect."  I was casted at two weeks and at five weeks (the casts stayed on for three weeks at a time) and that was the end of my being treated.  Doctors after that point (and up to ages 1 and 2) said I was too young to be treated and by the time I was three, my parents were told I should have been treated earlier.  So I've lived with this problem (although my feet look "normal") my whole life, although I've learned to adjust and most of the time you would never know I had issues.  Because I was the only one in the family that had ever had this, we figured it was just a fluke.  Well, apparently it's hereditary.  We found this out with Kai's birth.

Thanks to Kai's awesome pediatrician, he referred Kai to Seattle Children's Hospital to be seen by an orthopedic surgeon up there.  So on August 8th, my mom, Michael, and I took Kai for his first appointment. The doctor came in, we talked, and said Kai had "vertical talus" also known as "Rocker Bottom Feet".  It's the opposite of Club Foot and if you look it up online, he has the congenital vertical talus.  He has no other mental or physical abnormalities that are often associated with it (like Trisomy 9 or Trisomy 18).  Basically his ankles are dislocated and didn't form the rest of the foot properly because of that so his foot, instead of being angled normally look like the bottom of a rocking chair; hence the name.  The wonderful part of it though is they have a treatment for it now that has been shown to be successful!  The treatment requires full leg casts (Yes, up to the hip!) changed weekly for up to 12 weeks, with x-rays halfway through to make sure the feet are moving and forming like they should be.  Then, when his feet are in the correct place they will put a pin through the ankle to the feet to keep them together, after which he will have a cast for 3 weeks.  After that he will be wearing the shoes with a rod connecting them (like they do for club feet) full-time for 3 months and then at night for 18 months.  It's a long process, but the outcome is REALLY good, especially since we're getting him treated so young.  (The older the child is, the more invasive the procedure is to correct it.)  So every week, I get to make a trip up to Seattle, but it's been totally worth it!

Here's some pictures of his progress.

Before we started treatment





We go up for Kai's next weekly appointment this Friday where he will have x-rays taken to check the progress, but on the outside his feet are looking GREAT!!!  We're SOOOOOO excited at the progress made so far and can only wait to see what happens from here!

Just had to share...

So I've been going through Kai's clothes and changing out clothes he doesn't fit into anymore for bigger sizes in his dresser.  The other day my mom suggested getting out his toys as well to see if he would start focusing on them and even possibly playing with them.  Well here was our first attempt with this rattle...



And just because he's so cute...

 first outing at the park

 day of blessing

first smile caught on camera

just sitting being happy with mommy

another happy shot

and some more

 last happy shot this round

Monday, July 23, 2012

Happy 1 month birthday Kai!!

Hard to believe my little man is 1 month old all ready!

 Right after he was born on June 23rd

Taken on July 22nd  (He was a little sleepy when I took this picture!)

He is now 7 lbs, 14 ounces and 21 1/2 inches long!  (He was 7 lbs, 8 oz and 19 1/2 inches long at birth.)

HAPPY BIRTHDAY KAI!!!!  WE LOVE YOU!!!

Kai's Birth Story

So I decided it was finally time to document Kai's birth.  Just like the pregnancy, Kai's birth was anything but normal.

On Thursday, June 22, I had my weekly non-stress test and ultrasound at the hospital.  According to them, everything looked fine, nothing that raised any flags.  We had been told to be prepared as it looked like we would probably be having an 8-9 pound baby when he would be born.

That night, I couldn't get comfortable in bed.  I was having horrible pain at my pelvic bone, which had started happening earlier in the week, but this was the worst.  We called the doctor on call and he told us there was nothing that could really be done.  He said it sounded like my pelvic bone had become dislocated (which can happen in pregnancy).  I got out of bed and went and watched TV for awhile to wait until I was SO exhausted I couldn't help but fall asleep.  Finally around 3:30 a.m. I was feeling tired enough to go to bed.  I had been in bed for about a half hour when all of a sudden I got "the urge" and had a gush of water come out.  Yes, my water broke.  I woke up Michael and we finished getting ready and headed to the hospital.

At the hospital, they checked me and said that I was at .5 cm.  One of the things I found out at the hospital was I was one of the lucky pregnant women who tested positive for Group B Strep.  Because of that, I was immediately started on IVs and IV antibiotics, which meant I was bedridden.  They also started me on Pitocin because I had not started going into labor on my own.

After 12 hours of labor I had only progressed to a 4, but the contractions were coming strongly every 1 1/2-2 minutes so although I wanted to do it without drugs, I finally gave in and asked for an epidural.  I knew I still had a long way to go and couldn't do it on my own anymore.  Ahhh, the epidural was great!

After 32 hours of labor, I was FINALLY at a 10!  It took FOREVER to get from a 9 to a 10, but once I did I thought everything would go much easier from there.  Boy was I wrong!  I actively pushed for 4 1/2 HOURS but Kai wasn't descending like he should, (normally they only allow people to push for 3 hours, but since Kai wasn't in distress and I was willing to keep going they allowed me to.)  I finally got to the point where I had run out of energy.  I couldn't push anymore.  That's when they brought the doctor in and she gave us the news.  Apparently Kai was head down, but was facing sideways which was why he wasn't coming out.  She said he was too high to use the vacuum, so our only options were forceps or c-section.  After talking to our family medical expert and saying a prayer, we decided the only logical option was a c-section.  I couldn't bear the thought of possibly doing permanent damage to Kai's head with forceps.


So at 4 p.m. on Saturday, June 23 (Yes, 36 hours after my water first broke!) they had me in the operating room to deliver Kai.  He was born at 4:14 p.m.  Michael got to cut his umbilical cord.  


They gave me another epidural before they started the c-section, but like I do with all medication, it apparently didn't take hold like it should have as I started to feel them stitching me up.  (Not just the pressure and knowing they were stitching me, but the pain associated with it!)  


After Kai was born, they took him to the special care nursery and wheeled me back to my room.  They had to put Kai on IV antibiotics because I had started getting a fever (indicating an infection from the Group Strep B) while I was in labor so he had to be treated.  I didn't get to see him for the first 8 1/2 hours he was born.  They had to wait until my epidural had worn off before I could go see him.  He also ended up having jaundice, so on the 2nd day we were in the hospital, I was limited to 45 minutes every 4 hours with him.  THAT WAS HARD!!  When he was finally cleared to not have to be under the UV lights for the jaundice, I spent every moment I had (much to the dismay of the nurses due to the swelling in my feet) with Kai.


We ended up coming home 3 days after Kai was born to our brand new house.  We closed on our new house the day I went into labor and it was decided that we shouldn't go back to the rental house we were in at the time.  We should come to our new house.  So thanks to my dad, husband, and church members, we got moved into our new house Monday the 25th!


So, that's the story of Kai's birth!  Sorry it's so long, but like I said, it was anything but normal!

Friday, July 20, 2012

Kai

My sister, Melissa, has been asking for pictures of Kai, but due to my phone dying on me in the hospital and having to wait for it's replacement, I haven't been able to post pics.  On the 4th of July, my honey was nice and got me a camera so I'm not dependent on just my phone anymore!

So here are some pictures of Kai over the last few weeks!

Just doing what he does most of the time...SLEEP!

Hanging with our favorite person...GRANDMA!

Chillin' with our favorite GRANDPA!

More sleeping needed!

Aren't I cute!?!?!?

Meeting Aunt Alissa for the first time!

Just in case you thought Kai didn't get enough sleep!  

My favorite DADDY!!!

Hard to believe he'll be a month old tomorrow!  Time flies!!! (most days anyway!)

Friday, June 29, 2012

Michael Kai Bishop

We'd like to introduce our newest member of the Bishop family...

MICHAEL KAI BISHOP

(He will be called Kai)
Born Saturday, June 23, 2012 at 4:14 p.m. 
Weighed 7 lbs, 8 oz
19 1/2 inches long

Our little guy took a little while to come but we are so grateful he is now here!  After 36 hours of labor and finding he wasn't going to be able to be born without intervention, we ended up having a c-section and are glad we did!  After 3 days in the hospital (for both him and mommy due to problems mommy had during labor) we are now home in our new house (that we now own!!!) and loving it!


Wednesday, May 9, 2012

Life Update

Wow!  It's hard to believe I haven't updated this since December!  Time has sure flown!  I am now 31-33 weeks pregnant (depending on the day as the doctor moved my due date up to June 25th), have one less organ (after having emergency gallbladder surgery a month ago), and trying to get things ready for our little guy's arrival.  So much going on!  So little time to get everything else completed!

So as I said, I had emergency gallbladder surgery on March 28th after having my first gallIbladder "attack" that weekend.  After lots of discussion, Michael and I decided we didn't want to postpone removing my gallbladder until after I had our baby boy, as it could get worse and the best time to have surgery was during the second trimester.  We're so glad we did it when we did cause the surgeon said I wouldn't have made it through the rest of my pregnancy based off the condition my gallbladder was in.  Because I was pregnant, I didn't get to have the easy laproscopic surgery.  I had open surgery, which gave me this:

Sexy, right!?

I got my staples out a week after surgery and the following week had the incision rip open.  It was a very interesting experience as it wasn't what I expected.  I would have expected it to hurt and be bleeding, but it wasn't.  I didn't even realize it had reopened for several minutes.  Luckily Michael was with me at the time and we headed back to the surgeon where he then put in stitches (which I had in for 2 weeks) and it seems to have finally sealed together.  Even the surgeon was surprised it reopened!

Things I learned with this pregnancy:

*I shouldn't have taken the first 25 weeks for granted!  I didn't have any issues or problems and thought this pregnancy would be easy!  Little did I know what the next 4 weeks had in store for me!

*Our little guy is very modest!  It took 4 ultrasounds over the last 3 months to get confirmation that he is indeed a HE!  

*Due dates change constantly!  I've gone from having a due date of July 5th to July 16th to July 10th to now JUNE 25th!  

*Our little guy is not going to be little for too long!  He's all ready measuring over 4 pounds and was told he has LONNNNNNGGGGGGGGG legs!

*Baby boy Bishop does NOT like loud noises!  (Just like his mommy!)

*I'm not one of those who doesn't get headaches during pregnancy.  In fact, I had my first migraine in years a couple of weeks ago that ended me up in the hospital!

*Shopping for boys is FUN!!!  Up until a couple of weeks ago, I couldn't get excited to shop for him cause it didn't seem like there was anything "cute" out there for boys like there are for girls.  I just couldn't get into it.  Little did I know a monkey baby blanket would change everything!

I can't wait to meet our little guy!  Both his daddy and mommy are anxiously awaiting his arrival!  Until he makes his appearance we'll just have to do with this:


Now, if only we could come up with a name for him!